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When The New York Times declared, in February, it was hardly news to America鈥檚 mothers. Never an easy job, being a mom got a lot harder in the pandemic, exacting heavy tolls on virtually every aspect of their lives. We asked some experts what America鈥檚 moms deserve, and their responses cover policy prescriptions such as paid family leave, a living wage and affordable, high-quality child care, as well as simple hugs, gratitude and respect. (Note: Just because nobody mentions a phone call, a hand-made card or brunch, doesn鈥檛 mean those things aren鈥檛 important, too.)

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鈥淎merican mothers have lost nearly 30 years of progress in the workforce over the last year. This Mother’s Day, let’s build a robust care infrastructure: child care and early learning for all; paid leave for all and long-term services and supports for our aging population and people with disabilities. We have a lot of lost ground to make up and it’s past time we got started.鈥�

鈥擩ulie Kashen, director of women’s economic justice and senior fellow at The Century Foundation

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鈥淭o be listened to, valued and supported so that they can have reproductive and sexual well-being. Mothers deserve justice and joy.鈥�

鈥擩oia Crear Perry, president of National Birth Equity Collaborative

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鈥淕race. The ability to be vulnerable is one that often times mothers are discouraged from doing and after a year in a global pandemic we need to give more grace to moms to be able to feel all the emotions of 2021.鈥�

鈥擝lanca Goetz

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鈥淣ot just words but actions. I especially want to thank all the Black mothers, community Mamas, and early education providers who continue to help us heal during all the grief, trauma and tribulations, but also find joy and hope. I want for our country to truly thank our Black mothers and community Mamas by taking the burden, called racism and sexism, off their shoulders. Words of thanks are just not enough; actions that protect, promote and preserve their health, economic security and cultural excellence are needed even more so today.鈥�

鈥擨heoma U. Iruka Thompson, founding director of the Equity Research Action Coalition, FPG Child Development Institute at UNC-Chapel Hill

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鈥淎 lot more than flowers and gestures of gratitude. Despite this one day of celebration, our mothers are taken for granted every other day of the year. We need a national reckoning that acknowledges that in order to achieve gender equity we must value women鈥檚 unpaid labor. We need to compensate moms for the work we do, we need high-quality, affordable child care, we need paid family leave, we need pay equity, and we need policies that make it possible for the millions of women who had to leave the workforce during the pandemic to return to work if they choose to.鈥�

鈥擱eshma Saujani, founder of and the

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鈥淣ational policies and federal investment in families and children, and changes in the way we think about and value caregiving.鈥�

鈥擫ynette M. Fraga, CEO of Child Care Aware of America

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鈥淥ur ongoing emotional support, resources and time to balance all of today’s demands on families.鈥�

鈥擩oan Lombardi, director of Early Opportunities

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鈥淧olicies that allow them real choice in how to align their work and caregiving responsibilities, and a culture that doesn’t expect them to do each perfectly.鈥�

鈥擡lliot Haspel, author of and a contributor at Early Learning Nation

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鈥淎 long nap. And after that, a supportive, well-paid village to help them care for and educate their children. It鈥檚 been more than a year of mothers working triple-time to provide for their families, school their children and run their households. Our child care system was abysmal and stressful before the pandemic, but for the last 14 months, it鈥檚 been absolutely unreasonable. I hope that this Mother鈥檚 Day, people pair their tokens of thanks to mothers with taking action to support policies that will help mothers thrive, 365 days a year.鈥�

鈥擟asey Stockstill, assistant professor of sociology & criminology at the University of Denver

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鈥淭o get half a day off where they have no responsibilities and can go do whatever they want without any distractions or interruptions.鈥�

鈥擟laudia Bojorquez, director of Univision’s Social Impact Unit

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鈥淢oms all across America are their children鈥檚 first and most important teachers, and they deserve to be celebrated this Mother鈥檚 Day for all their tireless efforts in helping grow and develop our country鈥檚 future leaders.鈥�

鈥擲hane Garver, associate vice president of rural education at Save the Children

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鈥淭o live in a truly family-friendly country. We deserve to be treated as full citizens where we make the same as our male counterparts, where there is no longer legislation with the goal of limiting our reproductive freedoms, and where our work at home and in the workplace are both valued as work.鈥�

鈥擠iana Limongi

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鈥淯nderstanding and support as they take on the tough and rewarding job of raising a baby. Paid family and medical leave to care; access to high quality, affordable child care; guidance and support in identifying and addressing developmental questions and concerns; and material support through tax credits and direct assistance programs, when needed, to navigate through those economically challenging years. In short, a society that cares about them, their babies and their family.鈥�

鈥擬atthew Melmed, executive director of ZERO TO THREE

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“A hug, a nap, and a vacation… and policies that better support parents and families.”
鈥擬arley Jarvis, Institute for Learning & Brain Sciences at the  University of Washington

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鈥淎s the pandemic has highlighted, American mothers deserve equity. They deserve fairness in the workplace and equal compensation for equal work. They deserve access to affordable, high-quality preschool settings that permit for both their participation in the workforce and the safety and education of their children. They deserve paid family leave and access to health care. Above all, they deserve our unending respect.鈥�

鈥擠an Wuori, senior director of early learning at The Hunt Institute

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鈥淭o live in a country that is fulfilling its humanitarian duty to protect mothers and families seeking protection in the U.S.鈥�

鈥擩ennie Guilfoyle, deputy director of programs at (and my wife)

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鈥淭he public鈥檚 gratitude as the too-often unrecognized heroes of the coronavirus pandemic. In the past year, mothers have borne a disproportionate share of the burden of work, domestic responsibilities, and managing their children鈥檚 learning and social emotional development. We have them to thank in perpetuity for the positive impact they will have had on this generation鈥檚 children during this time of global uncertainty.鈥�

鈥擯hilip A. Fisher, Philip H. Knight Chair & professor of psychology at the University of Oregon

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鈥淧ermission to take time for self-care. Over the past year, we鈥檝e been running around, doing so much that it鈥檚 easy to forget that if you can鈥檛 take care of yourself, it鈥檚 hard to take care of others. That鈥檚 why I encourage the agency leaders, educators and parents that I work with throughout our Early Head Start & Head Start Network to come together to take care of ourselves, whether that be taking time at the beginning of a meeting to discuss what鈥檚 in our minds, fitting in a quick lunchtime walk or accessing available mental health supports.鈥�

鈥擠iana McClarien, vice president of the Early Head Start & Head Start Network at Start Early

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